3 men 1 boyfriend

Hello blog world,
This is my first blog to you, I am one half of Thursday mornings with the girls. I thought I would sum up my current dating sitch with you fine folks.
It all started one fateful evening when I went out with a regular from our bar...yes I am refering to the bar we frequent, not that we own any of it but we have spent enough in it I feel that would should have some stock. But for now all we can do is refer to it as "our bar".
I had been flirting with this regular for a couple of months, we had hung out only one time outside our bar, so one Wednesday when he invited me out with him and his friends to dance I pounced. I of course got all dolled up with my hopes high in the air, walked into the dance club to meet him and found not only him but $3.00 Tuaca bombs! I mean folks who passes up a special like that??? Not this girl, so after a few hours of dancing and drinking with him, his buddy decided to roll out on us, I offered him a ride beings that his buddy drove him to the club. After the 20 minute drive to his house he pulls out some Humphrey Bogart line and sweeps me off my feet...right into the bedroom. Well lets just be honest here, the sitch at the bar was a little tense after that night. I had feelings for him, but he just needed to get some. He chose to play the 'just friends' card on me. He then decided to make it easy on both of us I guess and just stop going to our bar all together. Shortly after this happened I tapped into some self empowering source that made everynight a blasty. We were going out more than ever meeting new people everynight, hitting new bars, and having an all around great time.
Then came our cowboy week, for five nights Andi and I dressed ourselves up and burned the town down. We made countless bad decisions, and had more fun doing so than ever before. January was bound to be a month to remember...maily by the photos we took and what we could peice together from the night before. The last week in January with times still rolling high, we got some of our girls together for a girls day before hitting our regular bar, once again we were dressed to impress. As Andi and I pulled in to the bar, I noticed that my regular from bar nights past, was there. So I flipped out a little debating if I should actually enter, once Andi had me calmed we walked in like two of the hottest runway modles. Of course he noticed us, but I wasn't prepared for the way he would look at me, staring at me from across the room. I didn't want to feel emotions for him so I did what any girl would do, I was a bitch. I walked over teased a little made him want everything all over again, and then lost COMPLETE controll over the sitch. I mean folks the whole plan was to make him regret being a douch, however it turns out to be a tease you have to stop sleeping with them... Guess I missed that memo. :)
Anywho, after that night things flew along perfectly with him, I mean we were practicly living together. And we lived happily ever after.........Not, so things went swimingly for the first few months, then what happened? Oh the brakes locked up and his comitmentfobe turned on. We were suddenly moving too fast although I let him drive the relationship, being that he has two children I didn't want to push him too far too fast. Now that he can't return my calls or texts, but still wants to keepme hanging on just incase something better doesn't come along, I have readopted my previous state of mind. The one I had in January, were everthing I do is for me, not for a one sided relationship. I am too young to be worried about who I am going to sign on a morgage with. So my regular and I are happily maintaining our 'open relationship' while I am happily going out every night he doesn't feel like answering my calls.
You may be wondering about the title of this blog, well here is you answer.
Enter Man #2 aka the nice guy. It has been said many times that girls only like to date jackasses, as much as we rebuttle, its pretty much true. The problem is there is something that makes us like the challenges of trying to change the 'jackass' into something that we would want to spend time with. I think that there may be a 'too nice' the guy that never does anything wrong, and always says the right things sounds wonderful at first but it just becomes overbaring, no one wants to live with a saint!
One night a co-worker talked me into going out with her and her friends, that is when the nice guy entered, we all hung out for a couple of hours. I decided to invite nice guy to my place sense the bar was closing, I had no intent on anything happening, but two bottles of champagne will change that. Not that nice guy would take advantage of the sitch, caaaaaaause he is the nice guy. so he simply tucked me into bed and cuddled with me all night. that night forward nice guy has been there everytime something goes wrong, I have a bad day, or I just want to hang out. He is so perfect and I can't understand why I am not going after him. He is super helpful and always handy with a joke or complement, I don't think I have enver had a bad time with him. He is interested in all of the activities I am, and is always telling me I'm perfect and beautiful. What is wrong with me???
I still want to be with my douch regular?? I mean fooolks whats wrong with this sitch other than everything.
Now just to make the circle complete man #3 enters the picture. The 'fun guy'. Everytime I'm with him something crazy happens, random dance parties, pranks, he is just so much fun. He would never be in the running for serious boyfriend material but being with him makes it easy to let loose! I have spent the least time with fun guy knowing that I will either be arrested or lose my job. He doesn't foster a good habit for work ethic, but more so a habit of trying to keep up with any drinking song a bar may play.
Andi and I were talking about my dating sitch when like a ton of bricks it hit me! If I could take all three of my men and melt them into one, I would have the perfect man! The jerk that will fight with me when I need him to, and that I have been falling all over this whole time. The nice guy that is there for me no matter what time its is or how silly the reason I am upset is. And just to top it off, the fun guy who is game for anything and always ready to pick up and go. As for now, I guess I will have to continue balancing all three of them, that is until I figure out how to make them all one.